Dating women
Most of the men seek advice from others when it comes to dating women. They carry so many misconceptions regarding beautiful women and their likes and dislikes that they start feeling uncomfortable in front of a woman that he finds to be sexy. The long list of do’s and don’ts seem to be never ending and as a result many of the men give up trying. But the rule is that there is no rule. You do not need to follow any predefined steps so as to impress a woman.
It is a common belief among men that all that a good looking girl seeks in a man is looks, job and money. And those who do not possess these assets must not even dream of dating a beautiful woman. But let me tell you that this is a piece of rubbish and nothing more. I guess the famous concept that men are from Mars and women are from Venus widens the gap between the two. All you need to impress a girl usually is confidence.
You need to realize that there is a mental game involved in this pursuit. You cannot expect to impress a woman at the first meeting itself. You need some time and practice to be good with women. Do not try to buy your girl with costly presents and gifts and then think that you could win her over. This is not true! First build a rapport. Try and know about each other and then you can go to give presents and stuff like that. Remember that it’s your real life and not a movie where the hero fights to protect the heroine and the next moment they are seen hanging out together. Neither makes the mistake to consider it a fairy tale where you can win her over at first sight. You must be patient enough. Try the natural way to impress her. Try to build that chemistry and attraction. Attraction is a must for such a relation.
Be comfortable in your skin. Do not try to boast a lot or lie about things just to impress her. You might get caught! Try and be yourself because this is important. If you wish to maintain a long and healthy relationship then you must speak nothing but the truth because you cannot continue lying all the time.
And of course believe in your instincts. It will never lie to you and give you positive results.
Until next time stay focused and feel free to comment.
By Miss Be Real
Keeping It Real!
