How Do You Find Single Men?

As mentioned in a previous blog post that a lot of single women ask the question:

“Where Do You Find Single Men?”  I also mentioned that perhaps the question should be asked in a different way.  What I gathered that single women really want to know is how you find single men.  

 Although both words where and how are adverbs, each word creates a different meaning in the phrase.  The adverb “where” asks what places to find single men.  The adverb “how” asks in what ways or matter to find single men.  Being that single women generally know where to go to find single men, the real question is how to indicate to a man that you are interested in him so that he may react appropriately hopefully.  Consequently, it is usually more challenging for shier single women or women who is not too keen on rejections.

 Read on for suggestions on how to find single men or better yet how to approach single men.:

 You go bowling and you see a great looking guy in the next lane.  So what do you do, well first of all, you should have yourself very presentable and have a glow about yourself.  Look at the finger, if you see no ring then make your move.  Walk over to him without being too forward, but just be very friendly and smiley.  Joke with him by saying something like “so who could use some bowling lesson”.  Say anything that could lead to a conversation or the guy inviting you to join him in the bowling game.  The key to this approach is to create an atmosphere that allow for you to mingle.  If you are a very shy person then try to get eye contact and simply smile at him.  Usually if a guy can tell that you are interested in him in the least bit, he will approach you and converse with you.  Of course, it may lead to phone number exchange, Hallelujah!!!. 

 Yes there are some cases where you may indicate to a guy that you are interested in him by simply smiling or conversing with him but he does not respond the way you wanted him so what do you do?  You just move on, it is a number game just like anything else.  Unfortunately, you may not be lucky the first time, you don’t give up.  You keep smiling until you have someone in your life again.   It will be sooner than you think.  Another thing you don’t allow it to upset you either because the reason of the rejection could be a numerous of reasons such as he has been already taken, he is not interested in dating, or any other reason.  You just keep smiling and very soon you will have a handsome guy smiling back at you.

 Stay tune until the next blog and until next time stay focused and feel free to comment.

 By Ms. Get Real

Keeping It Real!